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Communication in Marriage

December 27, 2024 • Michelle Gines, The Re-Imagine Strategist • Season 3 • Episode 15

Guest: Melissa Cancel, Ph.D.

Episode Overview

In this episode of the Reimagine You Lab Podcast, host IMG welcomes communication expert Melissa Cancel. They discuss the importance of effective communication in relationships, particularly in marriage, and explore common challenges couples face. Melissa shares her personal journey and insights from her 30 years of teaching communication at the college level.

Key Topics Discussed

Introduction to the Podcast: IMG expresses gratitude to the audience and encourages them to subscribe and share the podcast.
Guest Introduction: Melissa Cancel shares her background, including her Ph.D. in communication, her transition from academia to entrepreneurship, and her passion for helping couples improve their communication skills.
Personal Journey: Melissa recounts her journey to marriage at age 34, her husband’s past experiences, and how their unique backgrounds shaped their relationship.
Communication Challenges: The conversation highlights three major communication issues faced by couples:
- Understanding each other
- Miscommunication
- Listening skills
Conflict Management: Melissa emphasizes the importance of managing conflict effectively and discusses two extremes in how parents handle conflict, which can influence their children's understanding of conflict resolution.

Guest Insights

Transition from Teaching to Business: After 30 years in academia, Melissa founded "The Communication Dog" to help couples navigate their relationships more effectively.
Impact of Strong Marriages: She discusses how strong marriages contribute to healthier families and communities.
Practical Application of Communication Skills: Melissa reflects on how she applied her academic knowledge of communication in her own marriage, particularly in overcoming challenges related to her husband's past experiences.

Conclusion

The episode wraps up with a reminder that while no marriage is perfect, effective communication can lead to fulfilling and satisfying relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own communication styles and consider how they can improve their interactions with partners.

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